has typically helped people and can help you.
• Clear big emotional blocks
• Access your deepest needs and wants
• Tune into and resolve your hidden inhibitions
• Release your old conditioning that no longer serves you
• Be present with yourself ‘as is’ in a new, more life-affirming way
• End redundant or defeatist internal looping
• Resolve your shame, avoidance and trauma
• Melt your frozen and life-long habituated patterns
• Resolve inner struggles and conflicts
•Increase your sense of empowerment and purpose
•Cultivate greater acceptance, confidence, satisfaction
•Get plain unstuck!
• alert relaxation
• greater aliveness
• not ‘keyed up’
• not ‘about to pass out’ the moment you wind down
• not on the edge of your seat
• not ‘charged-up’, on the prowl to prove yourself
• not ungroundness
• not approval seeking
• not seeking the next ‘fix’
“I’ve gained a whole new relationship with myself that I could never imagined before. I am so grateful.”
“I stopped feeling and believing I was wrong. I started getting how human I am and how alive I feel. It brought me in contact with my joy and personal power.”
Vicky, Hong Kong
“Wonderful to feel what it’s like to tap into inner relief, not distress. I discovered resilience I didn’t even know I had.”
Wendy H, NYC
“Superb embodied work. It’s been the missing piece for me falling into place after years of personal growth work.”
Linda M, NYC
“This work is masterful. Makes me feel like a bud slowly opening. It leaves me settled & inspired for the first time in my life. Thank You.”
Kat B., San Diego
“Beautiful, powerful work!”
“I found this work powerful and quite lovely and illuminating. It touched my heart and my soul. I have room for myself now in my life.”
Louise C, NJ
“Empowered Self Relating saved my life. I’ve learned to be more myself and to enjoy me.”
Tara W, Berkeley
“I am comfortable with other people paying attention to me and feeling OK inside when I socialize. I can’t believe it.”
Beth A, D.C.
“I never thought my inner conflicts could go away. That I could let go of feelings of inadequacy without beating myself up more. It actually works!”
“I was stuck. I couldn’t find anyone who know how to move me along. This work got to the core of where I was stuck and made me feel I mattered. That was just the first session.”
Gloria, Victoria, Canada
In its unfolding process you discover who you were meant to be and the relationship you were meant to have with yourself before the conditioning, inhibition, and early thwarting.
Empowered Self Relating offers an alternative to top down, authority-based self-empowerment models where unconscious power differentials ironically undermine inner confidence and self-trust. It never gives advice or is based on other people’s opinions, trends, fades or how other people think you should be, feel or live. It helps you sculpt an inspiring, forward moving path to your most empowered self’s front door in way that feels doable to you. Even if you’ve been stuck in the same rut with yourself from the time you can remember, this process can help you end self-defeatist endless looping.
Science Behind the Process
The Facilitation Dynamic
You can rely on your facilitator as you would a guide to point out a swamp before you become mired in it, or a dangerous cliff’s edge before you fall off, or a beautiful panoramic view so you can savor it. To get the most out of your experience, your job is to tune into yourself along the way. Only you know what pace you want to proceed, your particular desire to take pictures of wind-sculpted rocks, when you need to stop for water or a rest, or if you had enough for that day given what the rest of the journey before you got there had been like.
The whole point of a co-created process is for the facilitator to guide you so that you will eventually become your own guide the next time youfind yourself in a similar landscape.
The only difference here is the landscape Empowered Self Relating helps you traverse is your own internal terrain. Together with your facilitator guide you are on route to finding a new path of relating to something and someone you have come to know very well: you and how you interact with yourself.
Still, the same understanding holds, there is the rhythm of mutual respect and co-creation; the dynamic of support and fostering ease while in a process of exploration and new development.
How the Process Unfolds
That’s right, Empowered Self Relating unfolds very naturally and fluidly, not by talking about yourself but experiencing your ‘as is’ you in connection to the ongoing options offered by your nervous system and your greater inner knowing. The unfolding process will integrate many aspects of your experience and life while helping you discover new ways of relating to yourself that deeply resonant for you.
Many people appreciate that they are never required to going to the details of their life’s history unless they want to. Through this process they become their own inner experts at tracing the path of what is happening inside of them in the moment and guiding themselves toward an easeful way to what they want and need.
How Does It Differ from Other Breakthrough Life-Changing Work?
How Can I Gauge If It Is Working for Me?
What Skills Do I Need?
We do not perpetuate the idea that some people are ‘right’ candidates for life-affirming transformationwhile others ‘are not.’
If what You need to succeed at Empowered Self Relating you do not already possess, we will likely be able to teach it to you or refer you to someone.
Because we want you to make the most of your investment in yourself given your time, money, courage to reach out, we have listed what it takes to truly move ahead in this work. We encourage anyone unsure, on the fence, looping in self-doubt or moderately curious to reach out for a 15 minute complimentary skype clarity call. 15 minutes might be all you need to clarify if it is a fit.
What It Takes to Succeed
It is normal to have a part of you who is scared, conflicted, hesitant to change, or not believe that you can. If you are feeling like your desire for change is taken over by conflict or doubt, feel free to reach out for a 15 minute complimentary skype clarity call. This work is highly effectively at naturally resolving inner conflict. 15 minutes of clarity might be all you need to get you started.
The ability to focus inwardon what is happening for you in your mind, heart or body in the here and now (we have a free e—course and many skills to help you with this. You might be better at it than you think…) When in doubt, it’s worth setting up a 15 minute complimentary skype clarity call;
The ability and willingness to share your here and now experiences authentically with the facilitator without trying to please your facilitator or change what your experiences truly are;
The willingness to allow the stories, truths, bodily experiences or what you know about yourself to shift based on discoveries about yourself in the here, now and tomorrow that don’t happen from your thinking mind. Though you can rely upon the integration part of the process to buddy up with your brain to make sure it all ‘makes sense in the end.’
What Empowered Self Relating is NOT
Empowered Self Relating boosts traditional methods & modalities
In fact, upon your request, we can confer, consult and work directly with your mental health provider of choice. We also have a very extensive network of licensed professionals around the world who we can refer you to if it is necessary.